___6__ 1. I touch my partner in a way that communicates forgiveness. ___5___ 2. I say I would forgive my partner if the offense never happened again. __4___ 3. I tell my partner it was no big deal. ___1__ 4. I initiate discussion about the offense. __5___ 5. I put what happened aside so that we can resume our relationship. ___5__ 6. The expression on my face says, “I forgive you.” ___5__ 7. I say I would forgive my partner only if things changed.